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What’s keeping you awake at night?

September 18th, 2026

The Floks team helps with the most common reasons that keep you awake at night.

Last week, we asked you two simple questions:

What’s keeping you awake? And what are you sleeping on at the moment?

And you told us. Uncomfortable pillows, aching joints, menopausal heat, noisy neighbours, cats demanding middle-of-the-night cuddles, restless partners and minds that simply refuse to switch off.

Some we can help with. Some, admittedly, we can’t.

So, here’s what we think.

“My old pillow is uncomfortable.”

Pillows are often overlooked, but getting the right support for your head, neck and shoulders can make a huge difference… but it is very personal!

If you’re doubling up pillows or constantly folding, fluffing and rearranging yours to get comfortable, it could be a sign it’s simply not right for you.

Our wool pillows can be adjusted by adding or removing wool until the height and support feel right for the way you sleep.

“Joint pain, a frozen shoulder… and menopausal heat.”

There’s a lot going on here, but comfort and temperature are two things we can help with.

If pressure points are causing discomfort, look at what’s immediately beneath you. Your mattress should support your body while still allowing your shoulders and hips to settle into the bed, rather than leaving you feeling as though you’re sleeping on top of it.

Then think about temperature.

Menopausal and hormonal changes can make temperature regulation particularly challenging, so breathable layers become even more important. Wool naturally helps regulate temperature and manage moisture, while natural bed linen allows your sleep environment to breathe.

The aim isn’t simply to make your bed colder. It’s to help keep your body at a comfortable temperature throughout the night.

“I’m just too hot.”

This is one we hear all the time.

Your body temperature naturally changes as you sleep, and overheating can disturb that process and leave you hot, clammy and restless.

And it isn’t necessarily just your duvet.

Look at your whole sleep system - mattress, topper, protector, sheets and duvet. Synthetic layers can trap heat and moisture close to the body, so sometimes the hidden culprit is actually underneath you.

Wool is particularly clever here. It naturally helps manage heat and moisture, responding to your body and helping create a more stable sleep environment throughout the night.

Think less about tog alone and more about what every layer of your bed is made from.

“My partner keeps waking me up.”

You might have perfected your own sleep environment. Unfortunately, there’s another person in it.

Wriggling, snoring, different bedtimes, duvet stealing - and one person being freezing while the other feels like a radiator - can all disturb sleep.

A good, wool filled, pocket-sprung mattress can help minimise how much of your partner’s movement you feel on your side of the bed.

And if temperature is the battle? Our All Season duvet often works wonders, or you could try separate duvets.

“I wake between 2 and 3am needing the loo. Then I get back into bed and my mind starts racing.”

This one really resonated with us.

Middle-of-the-night waking can have lots of causes, and once you’re awake, it can be incredibly difficult to stop your brain deciding that now is the perfect time to think about absolutely everything.

Again, we’d look at temperature as part of the picture. Your body naturally changes temperature through the night, and being too hot or too cold can make it harder to settle again after waking… hence why you think lay awake, because your core body temperature is wrong and needs time to recover.

Keep lights low, avoid reaching for your phone or checking the time, and make sure the bed you’re returning to is cool, comfortable and breathable.

And if needing the loo during the night is happening regularly, particularly if it’s new or changing, it’s worth mentioning to your GP rather than assuming it’s simply part of your sleep pattern.

“My mind just won’t switch off.”

Possibly the hardest one of all.

Rather than putting pressure on yourself to fall asleep, try creating some space between your day and your bed.

Lower the lights. Put the phone down. Write down anything you’re carrying into tomorrow. Give your brain familiar signals that the day is finished.

And make your bedroom somewhere you genuinely want to retreat to - calm, dark, comfortable and ready for sleep. We often say, your bed should feel like your favourite place in the world – calm, secure and comfortable.

“Noisy neighbours. Traffic. And very snuggly cats.”

We love wool, but even we can’t make the neighbours quieter.

For noise you can’t control, earplugs or consistent background noise can help soften sudden sounds that might otherwise pull you out of sleep.

As for persuading the cat or dog that 3am isn’t cuddle time? We’re staying firmly out of that one.

“I don’t know why I wake up. I just do.”

Sometimes there isn’t an obvious culprit.

We naturally move through different stages of sleep throughout the night and brief awakenings can happen. It’s often something else - heat, noise, light, discomfort or a busy mind that turns that little wake-up into an hour staring at the ceiling.

So start with what you can control.

Think about the temperature of your room. What your mattress is made from. What’s directly beneath you. What’s over you. Whether your pillow really suits the way you sleep.

Because better sleep isn’t always about adding more.

Sometimes it’s about getting every layer right.

Tomorrow, made tonight.

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